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Review

I briefly mentioned this in my 2024 reading roundup; I really liked it! The narrator for the audiobook also did a fantastic job-- I'm not sure how much of a difference that made, but I can at least imagine reading the book in written form and liking it less than the audiobook version, since I think the narrator really sells some of the turns of phrase. In any case, this was a pleasant listening experience for me, someone that's already a full on social media hater and has an axe to grind about it.

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The Arguments

Before getting into the arguments, I want to share the author's note from the introduction, dated March 2018:

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You are losing your free will.

Basically, social media is (1) designed to manipulate you and (2) addictive. You spend increasing amount of time glued to your screen, actively consuming material meant to direct your behavior (usually into buying things) and/or giving your information to the platform to help them present the material that will direct your behavior. Weird and bad.

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Quitting social media is the most finely targeted way to resist the insanity of our times.

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Social media is making you into an asshole.

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Social media is undermining truth.

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Social media is making what you say meaningless.

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Social media is destroying your capacity for empathy.

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Social media is making you unhappy.

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Social media doesn't want you to have economic dignity.

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Social media is making politics impossible.

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Social media hates your soul.

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Final Thoughts

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*finally finishes this post several months after starting it*

Battleship 2025 Letter

Jun. 30th, 2025 04:51 pm
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TBA, if I don't add in time check out past exchange letters for prompts and likes

Bicycling Science

Jun. 29th, 2025 11:17 pm
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I got this book from the library and was not expecting how serious it would be... it's a lot of diagrams and hard math and physics explanations for how bicycles work. Seems pretty interesting but definitely not casual reading or close to a priority right now.

...Buuuut I did still skim through, particularly the section on the science of bicycle balancing, which was really the part I was most interested in. And it's interesting!! That and some of the information on relatives of the bike made me happy I got the book, even if I will return it not having read 99% of it.

Bike Relatives

There were tons of these actually but I'm just sharing the ones that tickled me most.

Sociable Monocycle

Behold:

old timey (1800s?) image of a giant wheel with one man pedaling on each side of it

Unfortunately, there was basically no information on this; the picture is shared without context, and the citation also seems to have no context. I couldn't find any information on it when I searched online either... I'm so curious if this was really a thing and if so, how many there were??

Quardacycle/Quadricycle

Apparently nowadays this is also getting applied to pseudo-cars like this, but it can refer to the equivalent of a bike but with 4 wheels. Here's one I found for sale. What the hell... I wanna ride in one!!!

Velomobile

Basically a bike or trike where the vehicle is encased so it's more car-like from the outside. Apparently this makes the vehicle more aerodynamic. Here's a top-tier video from 2011 where someone shows off his:

Bicycles: How Do They Work?

I've been repeatedly going like: "How the hell do people manage to ride bikes all the time and have it be second nature?? Shouldn't it be really hard to keep the bike balanced? But it seems everyone can do it, even tiny kids!" Obviously the human capacity to learn is amazing, but the bicycle has achieved a level of ubiquity that is unusual for vehicles.

There were three pages in the book that completely addressed this, in a section called "How Bicycles Balance." To quote a bit of it:

It was and often still is widely believed that the angular (gyroscopic) momentum of a bicycle's spinning wheels somehow supports it in the manner of a spinning top. This belief is absolutely inaccurate. [...] Locked steering on a forward-rolling bicycle does not permit any wheel reorientation, and the bicycle will fall over exactly like a bicycle at rest, no matter how fast it travels or how much mass is in the wheels.

[...] Still, there is an extremely interesting gyroscopic aspect to bicycle balance: the angular momentum of a bicycle's front wheel urges it to steer (i.e., to precess) toward the side on which the bicycle leans, as can be demonstrated by lifting a bicycle off the ground, spinning the front wheel, and briefly tilting the frame. In other words, the gyroscopic action of the front wheel is one part of a system that automatically assists the rider in balancing the bicycle. [...]

The basic means by which bicycles are balanced and controlled involves vehicle supports that travel only in the direction in which they are pointed [...] For this, at least one wheel must be steerable, usually the front one. This balancing-by-steering function can be performed not only by conventional large-diameter bicycle wheels [...] but also by small-diameter wheels, as on a foldable scooter, by skates on ice, by skis or runners on snow, and by fins or foils in water.

I ended up watching a video that goes over this, IMO extremely well and clearly:

(Honestly I think you can skip the first 4 minutes if you're impatient.)

Watching the bike ride by itself made me feel like... damn, what am I so nervous for?? Not only can 5 year olds ride bikes, bikes can ride with nobody on them at all! All I gotta do is get it going and then sit there!

Interesting to me about all this (expressed in both the book and video) is that research into bicycle physics is ongoing, and previously it seems even scientists thought gyroscopic action was "essential", only to have this be disproven in 1970. I usually think of inventions as something that you make after you come up with a very clear idea in which you know how all the pieces work... I forgot that people can just make whatever, tweak it and iterate on it, and then be surprised at how well it works. And yeah, the design of the bicycle is just incredible!!

I'll end with a paragraph from the intro to the "Steering, Balancing, and Stability" chapter that made me chuckle:

The most visible wonder in balancing a bicycle is that the bicycle can be balanced on just two points of support. Indeed, above a minimum speed, it appears impossible to fall down even if one were to try! This is of course not so; it would be easy to crash a fast-moving bicycle, but riders obey an unconscious compulsion not to do so.

I’ve been wanting to ask you out

Jun. 25th, 2025 08:37 pm
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Title: i've been wanting to ask you out
Length: 200 words
Fandom: ダンジョン飯 | Dungeon Meshi | Delicious in Dungeon
Rating: General Audiences
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Marcille Donato/Falin Touden
Characters: Marcille Donato, Falin Touden
Additional Tags: POV Falin Touden, Post-Canon, Love Confessions, Getting Together, hints of arospec falin touden, hints of autistic falin touden, (as in there's a few lines that can be taken as evidence for either/both of those things), Cheek Kisses, Kissing, Girls Kissing, Romantic Fluff, Double Drabble, Seasons of Drabbles Exchange Spring Round 2025, Gift Fic, Gift Exchange
Summary: “Falin.” She turned around to see a very nervous Marcille. “Um, I need to- I think you should know that, that I-”
Notes: Written for [archiveofourown.org profile] worldunbent in the Spring 2025 round of [community profile] seasonsofdrabbles . Originally posted 3 May 2025
“Falin.” She turned around to see a very nervous Marcille. “Um, I need to- I think you should know that, that I-”

Falin tilted her head and asked, “What?”

“ThatI’mInLoveWithYou!” came out all in a rush.

“Oh, really?” Falin asked. She hadn’t noticed before, but looking back it wasn’t exactly a surprise either. “For how long?”

“I, well, I’m not sure when it started, but I only realized when we were bathing together after we rescued you the first time,” Marcille admitted. “I was still trying to figure out what to do when, well…”

Falin nodded in understanding. “I’ve been a little in love with you for a while, myself,” she said. She’d actually thought about asking Marcille out beforehand, but had decided against it - they were already quite close and happy with each other, as friends, so what would dating really change that much about their relationship? She wouldn’t mind being proven wrong now, however. “So, if this is your way of asking me if you want to date…?”

“I- yes! Absolutely!” Marcille grabbed Falin’s hand. “I, Marcille Donato, would absolutely love to be your girlfriend!”

Falin grinned and kissed Marcille’s cheek. She blushed, but happily returned the favor.

End Notes: Bonus info/headcanons that I couldn't figure out how to fit into the fic: Senshi, Chilchuck, and Laios all managed to figure out Marcille's feelings (I'm basing Laios being able to figure that out on the changeling section). Chilchuck told Izutsumi right after she joined, but she probably wouldn't have figured it out on her own even if given time

it's funny, you know.

Jun. 25th, 2025 10:36 pm
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I felt so much better after writing about my post-meltdown feelings yesterday. Getting it out of my head, so that it was no longer cycling through there. 

I need to remember that: writing helps. 

meltdowns and the aftermath.

Jun. 24th, 2025 11:27 am
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I had a meltdown on Sunday. I should have seen it coming, but I never do. 

Between work, lifting, and just existing it had been a busy week. Followed by a busy Saturday, out; around people. For enjoyable activities, but nevertheless, it can be a drain. I felt alright Sunday morning and then we went to the gym and I was NOT even close to OK. Which was then followed by a detour through the shops on the way home and by the time we got to the cafe near the apartment to get a coffee I couldn't even order. My mouth wouldn't make words, the racket inside the cafe was overwhelming, my hands were shaking. My partner ordered and waited for our coffees while I waited outside, leaning against the wall, trying to breathe, with tears streaming down my face. 

Once we got home, I was mostly OK. Exhausted, but at least I could breathe again, being in my own space; in our little apartment bubble. Even so, there were times when my partner asked me something fairly innocuous and all I could muster was a short, "Whatever, I don't care", or something similar. The harshness with which it came out of my mouth was at odds with how I felt (more of a gentle, "I don't mind", etc.), and I knew I'd upset them. I took a few minutes to process and then apologised. It was all good - they understood - but with the space I was in - the complete lack of resources I felt I had at my disposal - thinking about and taking care of their feelings felt like so much effort. 

Monday (yesterday) was better. But man was I looking forward to my day off today, with my partner in the office and having the house to myself. Knowing that I could have a whole day to just be: where I didn't have to talk or engage or have anyone need anything from me. 

And then my partner decided to work from home today. And that time and space that I needed isn't there. And I'm irritable. And I know it; I'm trying not to be, I'm trying to be zen about it but I NEEDED that so much today. And talking to them about it - explaining that this is what I need sometimes, and that it's in no way about them - feels like such a huge mountain to climb right now. 

Metaphor: ReFantazio review

Jun. 21st, 2025 07:51 pm
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I finished Metaphor: ReFantazio on Wednesday and LOVED it! While I have a few issues with the game (namely Catherina's follower link and one mid-to-late game twist) they're pretty minor overall in what's otherwise an excellent game. The characters were likeable (or like-to-hate-able), the story was thoughtful and interesting, and the gameplay was super fun and engrossing. Junah was my favorite character, and I'd very much like to play it again

Unemployed Girl Summer

Jun. 21st, 2025 11:49 am
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^ that's what I'm calling it. I'll be moving with my gf later this summer and decided that I have the time and luxury to take a little while off instead of going right from old job to new job. so here's what I'm thinking of doing during my funemployment era:

Read more... )

Quick Rec Day

Jun. 20th, 2025 12:05 pm
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Jun. 17th, 2025 03:45 pm
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I need either validation that other fields of art have equally self-destructive discourse (not in the sense of "produces flame wars" but in the sense of "literally arguing against the existence of the field") OR confirmation that ttrpg discourse is uniquely contradictory and needs to be put down

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